When the weather turns cooler and the pumpkins and fall decor abounds, that can only mean one thing: It's time to begin compiling your End of the Year Ask!  

What you'll find below:

What's an End of the Year Ask (EOYA)?

A special ask to ministry partners at the end of the calendar year. This ask could be toward a tangible and current need (rising health insurance costs, increase in monthly rent, needing a vehicle, baby on the way, etc) or it could be a call to the action of generosity (allows you to build in times of strength to help in the lean times). It is an important part of your overall MTD plan. 

Why should I do an EOYA? 

Statistics show that about 30% of giving happens in November & December. So, it's important to give your ministry partners opportunities to give toward Kingdom causes. This article from our friends at Support Raising Solutions explains more. 

NOTE: If you are still raising your initial support, this might not be for you. Discuss with your MTD Coach first. 

When should I send an EOYA?

Some begin working on it in October so they're not rushed at the end of the year. It's preferred to send a "Thankful for you" card or letter before Thanksgiving, but a "Thankful for you" text can work if you're behind the schedule outlined below:

TimelineAction Item
October or early NovemberDetermine your need and what you will ask for. Usually appeals for one-time gifts (vs monthly support, gifts in kind or service projects) are most effective this time of year. (Sample asks are displayed below.)
Early-Mid November

Mine your data from the past 3 years. Look for: 

  • Donors who usually have given by this time of year but haven't.  
  • Reactive Givers: Those who don't give on a regular basis because they like to give more infrequently and only when asked. These donors tend to like to be the hero and give a larger lump sum toward a specific need. End of year appeals (vs monthly giving) tend to minister to this type of giver.
  • Lapsed donors (non-current) and those who may be at risk of leaving your team. 
  • Anyone who has given a one-time gift in the past 3 years. 
Early-Mid NovemberID The Top 20. Through prayer, ask the Lord to help you make a list of the top 20 people you should contact one-on-one with your ask (either face to face or voice to voice). Typically, it's best if this group is made up of different people than those you usually contact with special asks; your regular end of year givers being the exception. *However, if anyone falls into all 4 categories above, they should probably be on your Top 20 list. 
Mid-NovemberSend a paper Thanksgiving card to your Top 20* along with a short, handwritten note about why you’re thankful for them. This should be a meaningful message of gratitude. The goal is to remind donors how valuable they are to you and the impact they are helping to make in the Kingdom. Bonus points for including your picture on or in this card! Please consider hand-addressing the envelope. A simple way to mail a card to your Top 20 is to pick up a pack of cards at the store and print 20 photos (of you or you + the people you minister to) at the photo center. Keep it simple so you're more likely to do it. If you have the time, you can send to more than just your Top 20, but make sure your first priority is reaching your Top 20. 
First week of DecemberFollow up the Thanksgiving card with an email containing your end of year need info. Encourage your donor to pray about how the Lord may have them respond to this need. Then let them know you'll be calling in a few days. Consider batching the emails in groups so you're not trying to make follow-up calls to 20 people all on the same day. Manageability is key.
A few days laterFollow up your email with a phone call to make the ask. Remember, your most effective asks are going to be face-to-face (even over a video call). If that can't happen, then second best is voice-to-voice. An ask in a mass email that's not followed up with a one-on-one ask is the least effective. 

Behind schedule this year? Talk to your MTD coach about how to best approach your Top 20. Scroll to the end of this page to see sample phone scripts. 

Is this schedule not your flavor? Want to do something different? Go for it! The basics listed below will make sure you're including best practices into your ask. 

Basics to any EOYA:

EOYA Samples:

See End of Year Ask SAMPLES

Can I still send a Christmas card? 

Christmas cards that do not include an ask can be a wonderful part of your ministry team cultivation plan. If Christmas is too busy for you, consider a Happy New Year card (with picture) that arrives after Christmas. That's in time for Year-end giving.  Bonus points for including a hand-written note in your card. Holiday greeting cards can be sent to all of your contacts, regardless of who receives your end of year ask. If you're out of the country, try a service like PrayerLetters.com or Chalkline or ask one of your non-financial supporters to help you send this mailing.

Here are a few samples of our favorite missionary Christmas cards

FYI: Reliant mails a Christmas card to your financial supporters each year. The main purpose of this is to thank them and ask them to remember their Reliant missionaries when they're doing their year-end giving. Note, Reliant's card does not mention your name specifically as many of our donors support multiple Reliant missionaries. 

I'm behind schedule! What can I do now?

Maybe you've missed the boat to send out a nice end of year ask letter. Maybe it's even too late for an email. But, you can always call people! It's fast, effective and allows you the opportunity to actually minister to your supporters because you're having a conversation.  So make a list of the donors your want to prioritize (if needing help prioritizing, see "Mine your data from the past 3 years" under When should I send an EOYA?)

One key way to significantly improve your results

The phone is your friend, especially at year-end!

If you’re doing an end of the year ask and you need the funding, definitely follow up with a phone call to key people.


Not sure how to open up the conversation? Give one of these starters a try:

Then transition to the ask:

Finally, schedule a follow up: