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GCM is providing this information for all non-licensed counselors who do spiritual counseling as a part of their field ministry work with GCM.
1. Pastoral/Spiritual Care vs. Licensed Counseling
- The best thing you can do is make it very clear you are not a professional counselor of any kind unless you have a specific license.
- DO NOT:
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- If asked what your opinion on their mental state is, you can say, "I am not a professional counselor so if you are concerned about your mental state I can refer you to an area counselor (or I would encourage you to see a professional counselor).”
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2. Do not promise anything that you cannot commit to. Also, do not commit GCM or local church resources to that which you have no authority to do. For exampleFor example:
- “I
- will always be there for you.”
- “I will be like your…. (dad, mom, sister, etc….).”
- “I’m totally
- certain that our pastors will meet with you.”
- “We
- can support you financially until you get back on your feet.”
- “Whatever
- it takes to get you well.”
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3. When meeting with people outside your local church, be extra cautious.
4. Refrain from using any speech, mannerisms or physical contact that could be misinterpreted as sexual or romantic.
5. Be very
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conscience of setting realistic expectations. In general, you should not
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promise unconditional confidentiality because you cannot guarantee it. If
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you have any questions regarding this, please consult with your local pastor.
6. GCM discourages opposite gender ongoing counseling relationships.
7. Having a second adult present when counseling with
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a member of the opposite gender or a
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minor, will help
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to protect against any allegations of sexual
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misconduct. (not necessary if
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we use the other Option for #8 below)
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8. If there is a real need (maybe obtain your local pastor's counsel to
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determine this first) to be alone with a member of the opposite gender,
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then if possible do so in a public place like a coffee shop (even if they
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are not very private for a private conversation). Also, avoid being alone
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with them in a vehicle driving to or from that public place.
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Another Option for #8 above:
Avoid counseling members of the opposite gender out of sight and alone. Instead, make sure the counseling session is clearly visible to others. Conduct the session in a room with a window or on a pew in the front of the church out of the hearing of anyone else, or require the presence of another staff person or trusted church member of the same gender as the person being counseled. Counseling in an open venue will eliminate the opportunity for emotional attachment and help to protect against any allegations of sexual misconduct.
9. Have a referral network of professionals who can
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provide counseling that falls outside the scope of spiritual counseling.
10. Please make sure you are aware of the Duty To Report requirements in your particular state as it pertains to counseling someone.
11. If the person you are helping is wounded, and
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fits into one of the following categories, caution is recommended and you
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may need to consider referring them to a licensed counselor:
- Minors (< age 18)
- Easily pressured by others
- Hypochondriac
- Narcissistic
- Borderline Personality Borderline Personality Disorder – inability to control one’s own emotions
- Repressed memoriesRepressed memories
- Dissociative disorders
- Suicidal
- Custody and Custody and contested divorce
- History of History of abuse
- Prior litigation history
- Break or Break or disregard laws with impunity
12.Potential danger signs that you personally may not be in a healthy place:
- Feels attracted to a counselee
- Feels strong symbiosis / interdependence with counselee
- Feels strong parallels of woundedness with counselee
- Desires recognition and praise from peers and / or counselees
- Asked to help famous, important, attractive, or wealthy people
- Feeling like you are now an expert in counseling
- Witnesses
- a series of dramatic healings
Pastoral/Spiritual Care vs. Licensed Counseling
- The best thing you can do is make it very clear you are not a professional counselor of any kind unless you have a specific license.
- DO NOT:
- Offer a diagnosis of their physical or mental condition
- Give your opinion about any medications they are taking, nor encourage them to discontinue anything they are currently taking. If they ask you, refer them to the original prescriber.
- If asked what your opinion on their mental state is, you can say, "I am not a professional counselor so if you are concerned about your mental state I can refer you to an area counselor (or I would encourage you to see a professional counselor).”
Do not promise anything that you cannot commit to. Also, do not commit GCM or local church resources to that which you have no authority to do. For example:
Refrain from using any speech, mannerisms or physical contact that could be misinterpreted as sexual or romantic.
Be very conscience of setting realistic expectations. In general, you should not promise unconditional confidentiality because you cannot guarantee it. If you have any questions regarding this, please consult with your local pastor.
GCM discourages opposite gender ongoing counseling relationships.
Having a second adult present when counseling with a member of the opposite gender or a minor, will help to protect against any allegations of sexual misconduct. (not necessary if we use the other Option for #8 below)
If there is a real need (maybe obtain your local pastor's counsel to determine this first) to be alone with a member of the opposite gender, then if possible do so in a public place like a coffee shop (even if they are not very private for a private conversation). Also, avoid being alone with them in a vehicle driving to or from that public place.
Please make sure you are aware of the Duty To Report requirements in your particular state as it pertains to counseling someone.
If the person you are helping is wounded, and fits into one of the following categories, caution is recommended and you may need to consider referring them to a licensed counselor:
When meeting with people outside your local church, be extra cautious.
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Potential danger signs that you personally may not be in a healthy place:
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